Expectations

Do you have a lot of expectations with you?
Do you have many things that you expect of yourself?
Do your parents believe in you?
Do others demand something from you?
Do you want someone to do something for you?

Can you do so many things at once?
Will you fulfil all your wishes?
Do you do as your parents want you to?
Do others happy with what you've done for them?
Does that someone give you what you want?

Do you feel disappointed when you don't meet your expectations?
Do your parents feel content? Or do they feel like they’re raising a bastard?
Do others think you are a disgrace?
Or you think others are?

If most of your answers are yes, you might need to stop or slow down a while. One of the best ways to be happy is to NOT expecting ANYTHING at all! Yeah, when you don't expect anything and you get something, that thing will feel marvellous.

You expect you'll get a good grade for your exam. And, wow, you did get a good one. So what? No surprise, you expected it, you knew you're going to get one or at least you felt like getting one. What if, you didn't? Yeah, you're shit!

You don't expect anything at all. And then, suddenly, wow, good grade, hahahaha, you feel like as if you don't need other things anymore. Okay, you didn't get a good one. So what? Whatever, it's not like you're hoping for a good one anyway.

Even better, you expect that you're so screwed, you think you did shit on the exam. Get a good result? It's a miracle, you literally feel like you can fly. You got a bad grade? Not a big deal, you knew this would happen.

So, don't expect anything, or preferable, keep your expectations so low that anything that will happen, is better than what you expected. Keep it to yourself, you don't want other do nothing for you and say "Hey, it's alright if it's that person, that person is a sad soul that doesn't expect anything, and will not be angry or disappointed".

P.S Don't complaint or blame others when you do whatever that's been suggested. You choose to not expect anything, feel free to kill yourself if you wreck your life. I don't hold any responsibility for whatever I've said or suggested as in Hollywood is not responsible for telling you "Believe ... and you can fly".